HOW TO HAVE A VIBRANT SEX LIFE [STRICTLY 18+]

How To Have A Vibrant Sex
Life .
If you want to make the most of your sex life, these sex tips
are a good way to start. As long as you're talking and
listening to each other, you're well on the way to a healthy
sex life. However, even the most contented lovers can have
fun trying new things, so here are some ideas.
1. Build anticipation
Agree on a period of time, say one week, when you won’t
have orgasms or penetrative sex. At first, allow only kissing
and holding each other. Gradually move on to touching and
stroking each other, masturbation, oral sex, or whatever
feels right for you. But avoid orgasm. At the end of the
week, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm, through any
kind of sex you like. This week may help to heighten your
senses to all the other wonderful feelings you can share
when you’re having sex.
2. Massage
Massage can help you have very sensual sex. As part of
foreplay, it's a great way to start things off slowly, and
relax into the feel of each other’s skin as your arousal
intensifies.
But a simple massage that doesn’t lead to sex can also work
wonders for your sex life. A non-sexual massage will
familiarise (or refamiliarise) you with your partner’s body,
reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you. If you
don’t want a massage to lead to sex, discuss this with your
partner so you can avoid any misunderstanding.
3. The senses
Good sex can embrace all the senses, not just touch.
Scented oil for a massage (don't get oil on a latex condom as
this can damage it), music and candles for soft lighting can all
be erotic, as well as listening to your partner’s breathing and
the sounds that they make. Taste each other as you kiss. If
you both want to, you could mix food and sex - feed each
other something delicious and juicy, such as strawberries.
4. Whisper
Whether it’s sweet nothings or your sexy intentions,
whispering things to each other can add an extra thrill. It
doesn’t have to be during foreplay or sex. A sexy phone call
leave both of you looking forward to the event for hours or
days.
This works with texts and emails too, but make sure you
send them to the right person, and remember that your
employer has the right to access your work email.
5. Read a book
There are many books that have exercises and ideas to help
you achieve a fulfilling sex life, whatever your age, gender,
sexual orientation or taste. If you’ve never thought about
buying a book about sex, why not do it now? You might wish
you’d done it years ago.
6. Share fantasies and desires
Everyone has unique fantasies, tastes and preferences
when it comes to sex. From earlobes to ankles, hairline to
hips, pirates to picnics, don’t be afraid to talk about them. If
you and your partner know about each other’s turn-ons, you
can make the most of them.
7. Keep it clean
We’re talking about your general hygiene. You don’t have to
keep yourself super-scrubbed: a certain amount of sweat is
fine, as long as it isn’t overwhelming. But be respectful
towards your partner, and wash every day to prevent nasty
smells and tastes.
8. Relax
Sex with a loving partner can be one of the most beautiful
and intense experiences in life. Sometimes the best sex
happens when you’re not worrying about making it exciting or
orgasmic. Relax with your partner, and great sex may come
and find you.